ADVICE COLUMN – May – December relationship?

    

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  I am a 21 year old woman. My father has a friend whom is 50 years old. Ever since I was 17, I have had an attraction to hime, and, he to I-at the time he would not admit it. I am an only child. One day he stopped by while my parents were away. I invited him in and one thing lead to another. We made mad, passionate love. Now , I go to his place 2-3 times a week(hard to do it at home). I wish to marry him, but he does not want to until he is ready. We never go out because he is afraid my parents  will find out. What shoul I do? – Layperson, Houston, TX   A:  Those type of relationships rarely last. You and he , need to determine why you both are in the relationship and what both want from it. It appears he is only after your body for sex. You sound like you want a father figure and/ or financial security. The relationship can only work if mutual respect, trust, and, love exists. It does not appear ANY of these exist. Only you can determine this. In such relationships, males usually milk the ladies for all they are worth and move on. Rarely is it the other way around. Open your eyes.      About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week notice needed) to :    Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

 

ADVICE COLUMN- Is my uncle too close for comfort?

    

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  Ever since I was a young girl, I had a favorite Unle(mother’s youngest of 4 brothers-only 8 years older than me) me. When i turned 17, I became a woman(developed). Lately, only when we are alone, he sneaks up behind me, pulls me in firmly with one arm and rubs my bare belly(wear tank tops alot), and nuzzles my neck for a long time.He also pulls my shirt up and rubs my belly when it is NOT exposed. Then he whispers in my my ear, “This is our special bonding secret”. I feel very uncomfortable with this and being around him-he stares a long time at me. Is this normal? – Cheryl Lopez, Pasadena, TX   A:  No, his actions are not appropriate for an Uncle, for a boyfriend, which he IS NOT, yes.  Do NOT be alone with him. Tell your family, you are uncomfortable being alone with him. If it happens again, pull away from him and inform him you are uncomfortable with that, and, to STOP doing it-DO NOT BE POLITE about it-he is taking liberties with you, he should NOT be taking. He will only go further. Stop him now.      About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week notice needed) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

 

ADVICE COLUMN-Did the Biblical Exodus really occur?

 

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  Did the Biblical Exodus really occur?- Sharon Imes - Spring, TX    A:   Yes, the Exodus, depending on sources, occurred either in 1470 B.C. or 1446 B.C.. Most believe it occurred under Egypt’s first female ruler, Queen Hatshepsut(another story in itself) and making 1470 B.C. the most likely date, described by early modern scholars as only having served as a co-regent from about 1479 to 1458 B.C., during years seven to twenty-one of the reign previously identified as that of Thutmose III.It  is now thought the Jews were NOT slaves, but harshly treated, paid workers. The Exodus was NOT a small group. Conservatively, it is estimated there were 600,000 people, liberally, 800,000-the Arab Semitic White Egyptians and Black Nubians living among them, liberally, were estimated at 200,000. It is unlikey they enslaved  a Jewish population 3-4 times there size. Many authorities now believe the Egyptians, because of God’s plagues sent upon them, were glad to be rid of the Jews, providing them food, water, other necessities, even an escort out of Egypt. Since this was not considered an important event to the Egyptians, they did not document it.God then closed the Red Sea upon the Egyptians. The Red Sea has receded some what since those times. Solomon’s pillars with the story of Moses’ Exodus on them have been discovered along with the Egyptian Chariots and location, exactly as described in the Bible, have been discovered at the bottom of the Red Sea-see the following links:       http://my.opera.com/DuckyChickenLady/blog/2008/02/22/interesting-evidence-regarding-the-parting-of-the-red-sea   http://www.arkdiscovery.com/red_sea_crossing.htm   A most recent discovery of some seals with inscriptions describing the Exodus:   http://us.mg4.mail.yahoo.com/dc/launch?.gx=0&.rand=a8da11e76tctj   http://www.ancientarcheology.net/TheExodusDecoded.htm   http://us.mg4.mail.yahoo.com/dc/launch?.gx=0&.rand=a8da11e76tctj For those looking for further confirmation of Biblical events and places, Biblical Archeology Review is an excellent source:   http://www.bib-arch.org/   Some experts claim the expulsion from Egypt, of the Hyksos, apparently a mixed group of peoples of  primarily Semitic(though not necessarily,but possibly, Arab and/or Jewish) White and Asiatics with a smaller admixture of Indo European Aryan White-mostly Iranians/Persians, some Turkish, Roman, and Greek, and some Black(Nubian mainly, some Nilotics) coincides with the events of the Exodus and is described by the Egyptians, though the dates may be off by at least 50-100 years.It should be pointed out that though the Hyksos are mainly Semitic, MOST experts do NOT consoder them to be the Israelites of the Exodus, although they may have joined the Exodus.        About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week notice needed) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

ADVICE COLUMN-Abusive boyfriend

   

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  What are signs of an of an abusive relationship-I am female and my boyfriend has become mentally and physically abusive? We have been together two years now.-Cheri H. – Houston, TX    A:  First,  it is time to consider forgetting,(REPEAT FORGETTING) this type of relationship for safety reasons.What are the signs-he cuts you off from friends and family, tells you how to eat, drink, act, and dress, questions you about your every movement, phone call, and whom you have been seeing, snoops through your belongings, especially intimate garments looking for clues to use against you, becomes verbally and physically abusive if he does NOT like your answer(escalates with time),constantly degrades your self worth, blames his violent acts on YOU(you are not the cause of his actions-HE IS). He flies into blind rages ANY time you talk to a male, accusing you of flirting, and/or sleeping with him even though you have a legitimate reason for talking to this male. He accuses you of coming on to his male friends. He tales you without you knowing it, he checks up on you. Any time something does NOT go his way, YOU are his mental and physical punching bag. He lays a hand on you for a second and third time or more, and constantly says it won’t happen again. If you don’t give him intimacy, HE TAKES IT-SPOUSAL RAPE.Says he will kill himself(even YOU) if you leave him. If you leave get a room mate, gun, guard dog or all of these-most often restraining orders are useless. TAKE AND LEARN SELF DEFENSE MOVES. If you leave him, and, he persuade you to meet him, meet in a busy Public place, let family know where and WHY you are going there-AND TAKE AT LEAST TWO OTHER SRONG PEOPLE WITH YOU, LETTING THEM KNOW WHAT THEY ARE IN FOR IN ADVANCE.   Do not blame your self for his actions. You may pay for it with your life. The minute ANY man becomes abusive, it almost never ends up nice-it is time to leave. If any woman has not developed useable work skills, it is a very good idea to do so, even in good relationships as even good ones sometimes come to an end.       About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week notice needed) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

ADVICE COLUMN-Brother too close for comfort?

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q: Q.  My brother is 17. I am a female, 20 years old. I was home for a visit. Ever since we were children, he and I would wrestle.This time was a little different. I was wearing a tank top and shorts. We were tussling about. He grabbed me around the waist, and held me a little longer than usual. He got an erection, then immediately let go. Did we do anything wrong?- Bobby Joe-Dallas, Texas    A:  Yes and no. You and your “kid” brother probably should have stopped wrestling when you were a teenager. First, and, foremost, of course, is you are a female, second, you are his sister. Since you have a female body, your brother’s reactions are normal when in close, intimate, contact with a female body, however, you, being his sister, is not normal.  You and your brother should stop the wrestling matches to eliminate temptations.  About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week noticeneeded) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

ADVICE COLUMN – Can my EX boyfriend, and, I, remain friends?

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  My ex boyfriend wishes to remain friends with me-he calls me every day and often waits for me after work. Can he and I be just friends? – Brenda Lynn -  Houston, TX   A:  Short answer, NO. The bottom line is, in male-female relationships there is always an underlieing sexual tension there.No, it is not usually love, but a pure physical attraction. Speaking from my own experience, all the women friends I have no romantic relationship with, I would love to bed them, but reality sets in- some are married,others, look good, but I don’t like their personalities, just their bodies, some are too young,we have no social, just, work contact,and so on. Those whom I have dated and then we went are separate ways, we do just that . If we meet, we are cordial. Some we did maintain booty call for a while, but that fizzles out, especially when one, or, both parties find some one else. You should break off all contact with him change your phone numbers, change you habits that you and he used to do together(i.e.- eat pizza at a favorite pizza spot), avoid common friends where possible, even move if necessary. Keeping contact gives the impression the two of you can get back together. Unless this is what you desire, it is best to make a CLEAN cut and start anew.          About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week noticeneeded) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

ADVICE COLUMN-The Lecherous Professor

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN       Clyde’s Corner Q:  Is my college Professor hitting on me-he is in his 50s and I am  a 20 year old female. I seem to be his favorite for answering questions. He compliments me  on my looks. I am a nursing student part time. At the end of the labs, I sometimes linger to finish up. Twice now, he has massaged my neck, but I pulled away. The last time, he said he could help me get even better grades, if he could tutor me. He said his home was not to far away and we could work there. He also said he needed an assistant and could get me the position as a work-study where I could get money working 15-25 hours per week. – Audrey Helms – Spring, TX   A:  Yes. He crossed the line when he touched you in an unprofessional manner and his comments should be restricted to institutional instruction and guidance, not involving  personal home use and involvement. Most institutions of higher learning have rules and regulations against student-teacher relationships. You need to make the institution administrator and staff aware of the situation and/or drop that class and take it  from another instructor. When ever you are touched in an inappropriate manner, instruct that person in a loud and clear manner regardless of whom is around, to STOP. Such persons actually often use crowds to do so because of the embarrassment the receiver may feel if a “scene is made”-YOU have done NOTHING to be embarrassed about. It is the person initiating the offending behavior that should be embarrassed. What you decide to do when you are NOT his student is up to you.  About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week noticeneeded) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/

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