ADVICE COLUMN- Is my uncle too close for comfort?

    

http://www.naturescorner.com/      ADVICE COLUMN        Clyde’s Corner Q:  Ever since I was a young girl, I had a favorite Unle(mother’s youngest of 4 brothers-only 8 years older than me) me. When i turned 17, I became a woman(developed). Lately, only when we are alone, he sneaks up behind me, pulls me in firmly with one arm and rubs my bare belly(wear tank tops alot), and nuzzles my neck for a long time.He also pulls my shirt up and rubs my belly when it is NOT exposed. Then he whispers in my my ear, “This is our special bonding secret”. I feel very uncomfortable with this and being around him-he stares a long time at me. Is this normal? – Cheryl Lopez, Pasadena, TX   A:  No, his actions are not appropriate for an Uncle, for a boyfriend, which he IS NOT, yes.  Do NOT be alone with him. Tell your family, you are uncomfortable being alone with him. If it happens again, pull away from him and inform him you are uncomfortable with that, and, to STOP doing it-DO NOT BE POLITE about it-he is taking liberties with you, he should NOT be taking. He will only go further. Stop him now.      About the Author:  Clyde Nassif is an international lecturer and Holistic Consultant with a client base in Houston, TX. He is a noted author of many blogs on health and personal issues across the Internet. He does both training on personal (in-home appointments only) as well as group sessions. Submit any questions you may have or to schedule a session(two week notice needed) to :   Visit his web site at:   http://www.naturescorner.com/   UPDATES DISCLAIMER: The information in this column, is NOT intended to diagnose and/or treat any health related issues and is provided solely for informational purposes only. Consult the appropriate healthcare professional before making any changes to your healthcare regime. Even what may seem like simple changes in the diet for example, can interact with, and alter, the efficiency of medications and/or the body’s response to the medications. Many herbs and supplements exert powerful medicinal effects. Neither the author, nor the web site designers, assume any responsibility for the reader’s use or misuse of this information. © 2002 Nature’s Corner    Clyde T. Nassif, Holistic Consultant, Houston, TX 832-292-8057(NO PHONE CONSULTATIONS-appointments ONLY)  http://www.naturescorner.com/